Xchanges new!
 East Tennessee's Hottest Adult Social Party! Welcoming Quality Couples and Singles. Knoxville, TN area. When you attend our parties, we encourage you to interact, mingle and Xchange! Please don't be shy. Tell everyone what you are looking for and the "Xchanges" will start to happen!

destiny's socials
 Destiny's is located at the Quality Inn on I-75 North at the Callahan Road Exit #110, in the meeting room on the 2nd floor.

The doors open at 8pm and close at 1:30 am, every first and second Saturday night of each month. All socials are BYOB, but set-ups and a large assorted meats/cheeses tray with a large variety of chips, dips, and salsa. There is also a conference room completely seperate from the dance and seating area for more adult fun with our assortment of board games and different card games.

The dance floor and banquet area is fully carpeted, for people who like to run around without out shoes, and the rest of the banquet area is decorated with blacklights, disco balls, and wild and crazy colors throughout the place. We have nice, clean restrooms with two stalls in each for more convenience.

Donations at the door are $30 per couple and $20 for single guests. Couples are not required to be married and All are welcome at Destiny's, we have no prejudices toward anyone. If you need more info or have any questions, feel free to e-mail me at anytime....destinyssocials@hotmail.com.

DiscretionsMemphis
 Discretions is open every Friday and Saturday night for couples and singles.Discretions has a large dance floor with DJ,pool table,and conservation rooms.The club is a BYOB club.Discretions accepts out of town Masca approved club memberships.

Menages
 Couples & Select Singles, Dance Floor, 3 Bars, Show Stages, Poles.

who we are

menages is an elegant, upscale, and private adult night club for sophisticated, sensuously inclined people who are open minded, curious and enjoy the swinging lifestyle.

where and when

menages is located in downtown Nashville on the corner of 7th Avenue South and Drexel Road. We are open on Wednesdays from 8pm till 1am and on Thursday's Friday's and Saturday's from 8pm till 2am. We have complimentary valet parking for your convenience and safety.

the club itself

This lush nightclub offers a sensually charged atmosphere without any pressure or obligation. We have over 10,000 sq. ft. designed for your erotic pleasures. Upon entering you will be greeted by our friendly helpful staff. The lighting and interior are inviting and seductive. The dance area is complete with a live DJ, two show stages with brass dance poles and a cage. There are large seating areas for socializing and mixing. There are three bars for you to mix and mingle at. Ready for some real fun? Come to the lounges and play areas and enter the world of erotic fun and fantasy.

party favors

menages is similar to a regular nightclub although we do not sell liquor. You are welcome to bring your own bottle (BYOB). Our staff will be happy to provide you with mixers. (coke, diet coke, sprite, orange juice, cranberry juice, soda water, tonic water, ice, buckets, etc..) We also have special theme and costume parties like Halloween, Valentines, New Years, Mardi Gras and much more. Check our website for Eventsand News pages for updates.

demographics

While age is not an issue, most of our members range from the early 20's to late 40's, and beyond. They come from every profession and interest, but all are personable, sophisticated and fun loving.

dress and door policy

We are an upscale club and ask everybody to dress to impress. Ladies dress to seduce, men dress to pursue! We dont encourage jeans and tennis shoes. Membership is required to enter the club. Applications are processed at the club while we are open. Photo ID is required. our personal invitation We welcome you to come explore your fantasy world at one of the finest private clubs in the USA, where discrete, adventurous adults experience an alternative lifestyle in pursuit of the erotic! For more detailed information go to the Information page.

Menages is the sophisticated club where you'll want to "Meet, Mix and Play".

frequently asked questions
Here are some answers to frequently asked questions about the club. We hope it will help answer some questions you may have before visiting the club.

Is a membership required?
Yes! menages is a private club and requires that everyone who enters the club to be a member. Applications are processed in person, at the club, during the hours that we are open.

What can I expect on my first visit?
Well firstly ensure that you have your IDs with you, and that you are appropriately dressed. When you arrive at the club you will be asked to complete the membership application. Once this is completed then the front door person will check your IDs, confirm the information provided, and ensure that you have agreed to the conditions set forth in the application. If the application is approved, then you will need to pay the membership fee and that nights door donation. A membership card will be issued and you will then be allowed into the club. One of our hosts will take you on a tour of the facility and explain the rules and answer any questions you may have. A lot of first time visitors think that they will be confronted with all sorts of wild goings on. Our club is like a regular night club, but with a twist! Nobody will bug you or pressure you. Relax, have fun and dont hesitate to ask one of our staff members if you are not sure about something.

What sort of people come to the club?
Average people such as yourself. Membership is non-discriminating as to age (you must be 21 and above), color, creed, social class, education or income. Our members tend to be upscale, mature, fun loving, and curious.

Why swing?
Contrary to popular belief couples do not become involved with swinging out of boredom but out of a sense of adventure and curiosity. Basically, couples who already enjoy a good relationship, want to add another dimension to their relationship or, are just plain curious. It is a shared experience that appeals to their fantasies, curiosities, and their desire to explore them together rather than apart.

What's in swinging for singles?
Essentially, for the same benefits that couples are involved. For the swinging single female, there is a discovery that it is more honest and leads to better relationships, than the ordinary single bar scene. For the single man, the opportunity to deal with couples and single ladies in an honest and sensual manner not offered to them in any other setting.

Should everyone swing?
With much to recommend the lifestyle, like so many other things, it is not for everyone. If swinging poses a threat to either part of a couple, becoming involved would not be pleasurable and not advised. If it is of interest to you, and you feel able to handle it, explore swinging, and the experience.

Is swinging all the fun that I have heard it is?
You bet it is! It is every bit as erotic, exciting, and fulfilling as you imagine it to be! You can explore your favorite fantasies securely! You can engage in private intimate sensual activity, share your mate with another in a threesome, enjoy another couple, or engage in the famous group swinging, all in one evening!

Can our relationship be damaged at a swingers club?
Relationships, reportedly have generally been improved with swinging. It is a shared activity that promotes understanding, intimacy, and communication. Swinging can remove inhibitions imposed by society and breaks up the routine and removes the need of role playing. It encourages honesty between couples.

Do we have to join any activities?
No, of course not. You are free to experience your own erotic adventure without getting other people into it. Many are just looking for a little extra excitement to spice up their own relationship. Some members are active in the lifestyle, some are exhibitionists, others are voyeurs, and some are into fetish wear. Yet all share one thing in common, they all are open minded & fun-loving people.

Is there a dress code for the club?
Generally speaking, for men, dress to impress. That means a pair of dress slacks and a sport shirt. Not jeans and tennis shoes. Ladies come dressed in sexy, sensuous outfits. Have fun, use your imagination. Many members look for the theme that evening and dress accordingly.

What's the average age?
While age is not an issue, most of our members range from the late 20's to the late 50's. Some are younger and some are older, the bulk are in their 30's and 40's.

What if we meet an acquaintance?
If this happens, it will be a surprise for both parties. Greeting each other is the best thing to do and most of these meetings will result in a better relationship with that acquaintance.

Can a woman ask another woman to dance?
Sure, a lot of women that come to the club feel attracted to other women and, when the feeling is mutual, it might end up in an exciting erotic experience.

We are very shy but want to meet other couples?
As a group, members are friendly outgoing people, but it's a two-way street. You should introduce yourself to the others. If you are unusually shy, or if the group appears cliquish, ask your host to make some introductions for you. That's why we are here!

Can we be up front about our sexual desires?
It is essential that everyone knows up front what they are getting into, and avoid an embarrassing situation later on.
Very important!
Don't allow yourself to be forced into an uncomfortable situation. You should never feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to. You are here to have fun, being coerced is "not fun". So, if anyone persists, please inform the management immediately. Respect other people's right to privacy and be discreet. What you see, or what you hear and where you saw it, is all privileged information. Don't abuse it.

The Social Club
 Come meet a couple hundred of the nicest, wildest people in town!

The Social Club is a private club where open-minded singles and couples come to explore their fantasies, or simply enjoy the adventurous atmosphere. We've been hosting parties in Nashville, Tennessee since 1980.

TSC provides a safe, private, no-pressure atmosphere for open minded couples and singles to meet, greet, and get acquainted.

No drugs, no drunks, and no cameras.

From: TSC Management

Greetings!

Thank you for your interest in The Social Club. We hope this provides you with a little of the information you are seeking. If you have a particular question, please feel free to call, write or email. But probably the best suggestion we have is "Come Check Us Out For Yourself". Everyone is different and seeking something different, so you really have to make up your own mind if TSC is for you.

TSC is a private club where open-minded singles and couples come to explore their fantasies or simply enjoy the adventurous atmosphere. We've been hosting parties in Nashville, Tennessee since 1980. TSC is a member of NASCA, the Free Speech Coalition, and is an Equal Opportunity Lifestyle Organization.

Our members share a variety of interests from exhibitionism & voyeurism to inviting others to share their intimate relationships... for an hour, a day, a weekend or even a lifetime. We accept couples, single ladies and single men in our club and welcome all ages, races, social spheres and interests.

We provide a discreet, relaxed atmosphere where you can be as open or as private as you desire. We do have 8 private rooms, a couple of group areas, and a couples only room. The door charge is the only cost; you can bring your own bottle or beer and we provide setups and a light buffet free. Our DJ plays an eclectic mix designed for dancing. If you don't hear your favorite style, feel free to make requests.

The "rules" of the club are: no drunks, no drugs, no cameras, no cell phones, and no means no. To get the most enjoyment out of the club, you need to be prepared to be friendly and be ready to have fun, but keep in mind that not everyone will share your specific interests so don't be pushy or obnoxious. The motto of TSC is "living life to the fullest" and we strive to provide a place where you can do just that.

You are welcome to visit TSC to see if our open-minded atmosphere suits you. Keep in mind that your level of involvement is (and always will be) up to you. Our friendly staff will be glad to answer any questions you might have about the club or the swinging life-style in general. Come and join the fun!

Beginner's Guide to Swinging


Congratulations! You've decided to become members of the swinging lifestyle and now you're attending your first swing function. As excited as you are, you're probably also a little nervous and apprehensive about how you should conduct yourselves. Let us give you a word of advice. Relax! You're here to enjoy yourselves, and we're going to try to help you do just that.

By now you've had a chance to meet some of the members of the staff and have found them friendly, helpful and easy to converse with. Please feel free to ask questions or consult them on any problem you may be having. They're here especially to see to your needs. All the fun will be starting in just a little while and in the following paragraphs we'll be offering a few simple hints to help you make this visit a very positive experience.

BE YOURSELVES: After you've found a table, take advantage of your opportunity to wander around and familiarize yourself with your surroundings. You'll probably meet other couples or singles, so don't hesitate to introduce yourselves. Making friends is the key to good swinging. And who knows, that nice couple you meet may turn out to be your first swinging encounter!

Your first visit is electric with the anticipation of meeting new people. Some of the regulars will make the first move by introducing themselves, and perhaps some of the other couples they know. This should certainly make you feel right at home. It may also help you to know that swingers for the most part agree on basic good manners. You'll get the most out of this alternative lifestyle if you just use your common sense and remember that the good manners you've acquired and use in any social situation also apply in swinging.

OPEN CONVERSION: Do tell people you are new to swinging. There are lots of couples who will be happy to show an inexperienced twosome some gentle loving and caring. If this is your first swinging experience, you may have some unexpected anxieties about seeing your mate with another. It is important that you be honest with your mate and make your anxieties known. Perhaps you might be a little more comfortable if you talked with a more experienced couple willing to share how they handled their first swinging encounter. Of course, we don't mean to imply that you'll definitely have problems. But if you should, we only wish to suggest that communication is the only real means of solving those problems.

SWINGING ETIQUETTE: Please...don't be pushy! Many couples new to swinging are very often prepared for the fun, but very poorly equipped to handle the rejections that may come their way. Remember that freedom of choice is every individual's right in swinging and respecting that right is only common courtesy. Learn how to handle a "No, thank you" graciously. You and your mate may also wish to discuss in advance your particular method of swinging; if you will swing alone or together, open or closed, bisexually or not. You may have other personal restrictions you'd like to have honored. Only you can decide those issues for yourselves, but please, do so before you start swinging.

Please remember that we expect our participants to conduct themselves with dignity. Creating a scene in public is not acceptable. We have never had an incident where a couple has put a damper on our party by airing their difficulties in public. Hopefully, we never will.

SECURITY: You will find the club manager, staff and security very accommodating and friendly. However, not everyone in the complex will be swingers, so please confine your activities to club members. The security guards are here for your protection. The security guards assure your privacy and will not interfere with your good time. Should you be in need of help or if an emergency arises, they will come you your immediate aid.

ARE YOU SHY? Once you have settled down for some serious swinging and/or socializing, please be assured you will not be required to run around naked. You and your mate may elect to wear whatever you feel most comfortable wearing. We'd like to remind you that here as well as in all swing clubs that we know of, you are not required to do anything that you do not want to do!

Making new friends takes courage and some sort of effort on your part. You don't have to swing with everyone you meet, nor is the purpose of swinging to try and set records for your sexual stamina. Many swingers establish solid friendships at our club which continue long after the party is over. The important thing to remember is that the best swinging encounters start with good verbal communication. Don't be in a hurry. Take the time to find out about the other couple's desires and interests. And don't be afraid to explore your fantasies. You may find threesomes, foursomes or a group scene very exciting. The more adventurous may seek out an orgy for a little added spice.

SEEING IS BELIEVING: You may find it reassuring to know that swingers are just ordinary people with normal sexual desires just like yourselves. But perhaps you've heard that swingers are kinky individuals who enjoy the more bizarre sexual diversions. This is true in certain circumstances, but from my own experiences, I would venture to say that most swingers are pleasant people who want to form friendships that will go a little bit further to include the warmth of sexual expression and intimacy which can only be acquired by knowing the whole person.

I hope these words have opened a few avenues of thought for you and your mate, as well as alleviated the fears or reservations you may have been feeling. Good luck and I hope you find that special couple or single who will open up new and exciting horizons for you that will set the pace for the rest of your swinging lifetime.

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