new!!! Club Eden  
This is an on-premise swinger's club located in Portland ,OR We are membership based. We are primarily couples and single women, however we do accept single men into our events, but they must be sponsored and accompanied by members in good standing. Our scheduled events are on the group calendar. Just click on "Calendar" in the menu box. RSVP to Club_Eden@msn.com The annual membership fee is 60-30-60. That corresponds to couple-single woman-single man (60-30-60).Come and see where the real swingers play. Call 503-282-2715 for more info.

Ace of Hearts  
Portland's Erotic Nightspot

An on-premise members-only facility for adults in
the lifestyle ("Swingers") to get together.

The Ace Of Hearts Club is Portland, Oregon's friendliest private adult social club. If you are a couple, single lady, or a single gentleman (by invitation only), you are welcome to come and join the "fun and frolicking" that can be enjoyed at the club.

Each new member is required to attend the New Members Orientation. The purpose of the orientation is to educate members about the lifestyle and the ACE of Hearts club. One of the points stressed at the orientation is that the word "NO" means NO and that anyone breaking this rule will be asked to leave the club, possibly on a permanent basis. Another of the points stressed is that drugs or alcohol will NOT be tolerated at the club and that smoking is not allowed inside the building or in the hot tubs. There is a separate area that is set up for smokers.

The club has many aspects that contribute to everyone's enjoyment:

Downstairs (where you enter)
2 Dance Floors
Snack Bar (soda pop / coffee / snacks)
CD Jukebox
5 Small / 1 Large Socializing rooms
Large 15 person Hot Tub
Restroom & Shower facilities
Booth type seating
Lockers (for personal effects - you supply the lock)
Upstairs
2 Pool Tables
2 Electronic Dart Boards
Large Wall Projection TV (showing "mood" movies)
4 Small / 3 Large Socializing rooms
12 person Hot Tub
4 person Hot Tub
Restrooms & Shower facilities
Booth type seating
Lockers (for personal effects - you supply the lock)

Smoking Area (upstairs patio area)
Heated during cooler months

There are plenty of booths and tables in the pool room, around the dance floors and on the large TV room upstairs has couches, love seats and chairs.

Snacks, soft drinks, coffee, water, and ice are provided by the club. Outside food is not allowed.

Check out the Calendar of Events for party particulars

So, how does one become a member of the ACE of Hearts?

You must:

Have valid picture ID

Be 18 or older

Be interested in this "lifestyle"

Attend the required orientation

Meet the definition for the specific membership

Pay a membership fee and annual renewals

Follow and adhere to club rules and policies

Couples -def A man and woman who are in an established relationship (whether married, living together, or otherwise committed) and attend the club together are a "couple".

$80 to join (couples only) which includes the first nights admission, subsequent visits are $40. Annual renewal is $25 . Couples can attend all ACE events

You both need to attend orientation. You MUST have valid picture ID with you and be 18 or older. Remember this is a social club, first and foremost!!! You are NEVER required to do anything you don't wish to and NO means NO is ALWAYS STRICTLY ENFORCED HERE!!! :)

**Our hotline @ (503) 727-3580 for more information

Single Lady -def A woman who attends the club without a male companion. Whether she is married, committed, or uncommitted; if she attends the place by herself, she is a single female.

It's only $40 for a membership and then $10 to visit ACE events unaccompanied for one year (except MAJOR events like Halloween and New Years). Annual renewal is $25 .

You need to attend orientation. You MUST have valid picture ID with you and be 18 or older. Remember this is a social club, first and foremost!!! You are NEVER required to do anything you don't wish to and NO means NO is ALWAYS STRICTLY ENFORCED HERE!!! :)

**Our hotline @ (503) 727-3580 for more information

Single Gentleman -def A man who attends the club without a female companion. Whether he is married, committed, or a bachelor; if he attends the place by himself, he is a single male.

$149 to join which includes your first nights admission, subsiquent visits are $50. Annual renewal is $25 Come down and get questions answered one-on-one on most Friday evenings (check the calendar of events) ONLY between 7:00 and 9:00pm. There is a tour of the facility and an interview process. Then you may be invited to join. Single male members may attend unaccompanied (regular single male rate) or with a female member as his date at the couples rate.

You MUST have valid picture ID with you and be 18 or older.

Remember this is a social club, first and foremost!!! We strictly enforce all policies on behavior, including the rule that "no" means "NO!"

** Our hotline @ (503) 727-3580 for more information

NASCA Affiliates -def Anyone who has a valid NASCA ID card and picture ID receives the standard NASCA affiliate discount to attend our events when visiting.

We are proud to be members of NASCA and are committed to help further the community that so many of us have learned to call "the Lifestyle"

Nightshift-nw   
Portland, Oregon swinger dance club. If you are new to the lifestyle or wanting to meet new and old friends, then come to our dance. Never any pressure. Please visit our website for more information.
www.nightshift-nw.com

Salem Swingtime Dance  
Check out the Calendar on their website, the Dance dates are posted. Dances are normally the 2nd Saturday of each month.

Location is not posted on our web site. Please email for location.

The Salem Swingtime Dance provides special events for mature couples who are interested in the swinging lifestyle. We produce a private and seductive dance each month that entices and excites attractive couples from all over Oregon and Southwest Washington. It is a chance to pursue sexual fantasies normally suppressed in other dance environments. The key feature of our dance is that there is never any pressure to participate.

The Salem Swingtime Dance is an off premise dance, which means we do not have a facility available for sexual activity. You will, however, frequently see spontaneous acts of seduction performed on the dance floor. there is ample opportunity for dirty dancing (bump and grind), as well as romantic slow dancing and fast rock stomping. You may dress as seductively or as conservatively as you'd like... or you may choose to bring something to change into as your mood dictates.

We conduct an orientation discussion at the dance hall just prior to each dance. This discussion is designed to address many questions and concerns such as health risk, etiquette, jealousy, sexual preference and more. This gives couples new to the lifestyle the information they need to ease the normal jitters, and is an opportunity to meet your hosts and other new couples.

This kind of recreation is best approached with a secure, well established primary relationship. Honest considerations must be given to the possibility of jealousy and it's control. Just remember that your primary objectives should be to widen your circle of friends and to have fun!



Salem Swingtime Dance provides a dance for mature couples who are
interested in the swinging lifestyle.

Doors open at 6:30 p.m. Orientation for new couples at 7:15 p.m.
Music begins at 8:00 p.m. until 12:45 a.m.

$30 per couple (single females $20) (NO SINGLE MEN ALLOWED)

We provide soda pop and coffee.

The Dance is held in a completely smoke-free environment.

The dance is located In Salem, there is plenty of parking.

In order to keep the dance private, the location is not on the web site. Please email the hosts for more information.

Respectful swinging in perspective


Swinging Defined
"Engagement in sexual activity with someone other than one's spouse or primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that spouse/primary partner" (Friend, Pearlmutter, McGinney 1989), and "recreational social-sexual sharing among consenting adults" (McGinney 1980). In practical terms, this translates into married couples, and couples in committed and casual relationships, engaging in social-sexual activity with other couples outside of their relationship. It is very different from cheating, however, because everyone involved are mutual participants, free of guilt, dishonesty and deceit. In other words, a couple in a relationship has openly discussed and agreed that such social-sexual interactions with others is ok.

Sexual Activities
Threesomes - Three people, two of one gender and one of another. In this situation, all three people may interact with each other (as is common when the threesome is two women and one man), or two of the people, usually of the same gender, may be interacting only with the third (as is common when the threesome is two men and one woman).

Couple to couple - One couple pairing up with another. After an exchange of partners, the participants usually (but not always) engage in social-sexual activity within close proximity of each other. That is within the same room or on the same bed. Frequently, these couples may interact in such a way that the foursome activities are more similar to group sex, with all involved participating together.

Groups (orgies) - This activity is an encounter with four or more people in the same sexual interaction. It may be two couples as described earlier, or any gender and relationship configuration involving both sexes of four or more people.

Bisexuality - People of the same gender, sexually interacting. This is fairly common among women, although not all women by any means. Bisexuality among men is extremely rare in the swinging lifestyle, although not unheard of.

Voyeurism - Watching others involved in sexual activity. This activity is usually welcome in open group party areas, but no in private areas. It is common for a couple to have a partner that likes to watch (voyeurism) while the other likes to show off (exhibitionism).

Other cultures - English culture (spanking), bondage, sado/masochism and water sports (urination) are uncommon and generally shunned at most swing parties.

Social aspects of swinging
Swinging is a social activity. Whether attending a party, meeting with another couple privately, or engaging with a single person for a threesome, the participants talk with one another, eat, drink, and laugh, all with the purpose of becoming acquainted in order to sexually enjoy one another. Sexual activity may or may not follow, however. Many swingers have swinging friends they have known for month, even years, that they have not been sexually involved with. Private, clubs, and party houses offer a place to gather to swing. The environment is meant to be one of social warmth and belonging. It is pleasurable to meet new people, friends and acquaintances at a party. Pleasant memories come from lounging, perhaps partially dressed or nude, in a group around the fireplace; talking, listening to music, laughing and warming up to one another. This may happen in a hot tub, Jacuzzi or pool as well. When these social experiences are complimented by enjoyable sexual experience the appeal of swinging is understood.
Though some couple who swing have open marriages and have swinging dates apart, the majority of couples do not date separately. They see swinging as an activity/lifestyle to enjoy together, as a part of their relationship.

Meeting Places

Off Premise - No space is provided for engaging in sexual activity. In other words, those who wish to go further than strictly social interaction must find someplace else to do so.

On Premise - Space is provided for those who wish to go further than strictly social interaction and engagement in sexual activity is appropriate.

Nudity and Dress - The common attire at an off-premise activity is dressy, often sexy. The common attire for an on-premise swing party may be dress or casual, but with the expectation of partial or full nudity. It is common for participants to take lingerie, a robe or other slip-on attire to the party.

Etiquette

As in any social activity, there are expected rules of conduct in swinging. Following the rules is an effective way to make yourself welcome within the swinging community.


Arrive on time. It isn't fashionable to arrive late to a swing party or event.


Arrive as a couple and leave as a couple when attending a swing dance or party. It is frowned upon by most hosts and other swinger when a partner, usually the women, departs leaving her mate at the party as a single.


Attractive but casual party clothes are usually best. If you're attending an on-premise party, take a robe, negligee, or other slip-on attire. You may find it more comfortable as the evening continues. Keep money, jewelry and other valuables to a minimum. If they're lost, it's a problem for you and an embarrassment to your hosts.


Cleanliness and good grooming is essential for swinging participants. Be aware of your body and take care of it. Be especially aware of any body odor you may develop due to the physical nature of these activities. Even a kiss can be a turnoff if delivered with a breath heavy with the taste of cigarettes or liquor. Breath mints or gum are very helpful.


A good mental attitude and emotional health will make you popular in the swinging community. No one appreciates the negative person with nothing good to say about the party, other persons or swinging. The man or woman with the smile, ready laugh and obvious interest in others is the person others like to be around.

Everyone has the right of refusal, so you don't have to swing with a person unless you want to, and they don't have to swing with you. Be honest with your feelings and desires, and expect others to do the same. Only ask those you want to say "yes." If they say "No," take it graciously and don't try to coax, pressure or persuade them to change their mind. When you say "Yes" to others, be honest and enthusiastic. When you say "No," be tactful and courteous. But don't say "Maybe later" when you really mean "NO."


Don't take a "Ticket" to a swing party. A "ticket" is someone who has no intention of swinging, but is willing to go along to get someone else in. No one must swing at a party, of course, but if one person swings, it is expected that the other is willing and free to do the same.


Don't take someone to a swing party who is not fully informed as to the nature of the party and their expected behavior.


Don't disturb the swinging enjoyment of others in a bedroom or other swing area with loud or prolonged talk.


The group room is for group swinging so if you want privacy, don't go to the group room. If you take your partner, or any other person to the group room to swing, you can expect others to ask to join you and your partner. (The right of refusal always applies, of course. Swinging in the group room doesn't automatically give others the right to join you nor you the right to join others.)


Club swing parties have dues or donations. It is your responsibility to present it upon being checked in for a party. Don't make the hosts remind you.


Don't be a bedroom "cruiser." Looking into bedrooms, pulling back curtains, turning on lights and going into private swing areas as a stag to see if you can get involved in something are major breaches of swinging etiquette. If you become known for such behavior, you may find that swing party invitations become few and far between.


Illegal substances, including marijuana, are prohibited at responsible swing clubs and private parties. Swinging is it's own pleasure, don't dilute it and don't subject yourself and other to legal problems. Going in and out of the party or dance to your care will be suspect. Don't do it!


If a party is BYOB (bring your own bottle), only drink what you bring. Never help yourself to what others have brought without their permission. This is another of the much violated rules of swinging etiquette, and one that causes anger among the party guests.


Tell the hosts if another guest causes a problem, won't take no for an answer, or is objectionable in any real way. They sincerely want to know so that they can correct the situation before it becomes a problem. Keeping problems and bad feelings to yourself only contributes tension to the situation.


If you like a club or party, say so. If it just isn't your thing, leave. To speak disparagingly of a party to the other guests is imply poor manners

The TETRA CLUB - Southern Oregon's Only Swingers CLUB  
We are the only Swingers Club in Southern Oregon. We might be small, but we are the best! Our Swinger parties are held 2-6 times a month. Couples, single men, single women always welcome.
Join the fun this weekend - Give us a call 541 601-6204.

FAQ

Who can attend Tetra swinger parties - Any couple, single woman, or single man over the age of 18 may attend. We try to keep a 50/50 gender balance, and allow selected single men to attend, based on the number of single women expected.

I have a female friend who said she would accompany me to a party and leave. Is this acceptable - This type of arrangement is called a "ticket", as she is your ticket to enter. If you show up together, you must leave together. Most seasoned swingers can spot this type of arrangement instantly.

What should I wear, or bring with us to a party - It is a good idea to bring a change of clothes, condoms, lubricant, and any toys you care to bring if you intend on playing, and any toiletry items you may need.

What is the age group who attends a party - Most couples are 28-45+, but expect some younger and older couples to be in attendance. If you look younger than 18, you will be asked to show I.D. before being allowed to enter.

What are your rules - Our rules are very simple, treat everyone courteously, and remember no means no. Don't answer maybe if it is not what you mean. Drinking is allowed ( BYOB ), but no one likes a drunk. You will be asked to leave if your conduct disrupts the activities, and may be bared from attending any future events.

We have never been to a swingers party before, do we have to participate - The answer is no. We strive to have no pressure atmosphere. We all were newbies at some time in our life. You can join in, or just watch, or just enjoy your partner. You can be as conservative as you desire, or totally uninhibited, the choice is yours. If you are having trouble meeting other couples, ask our hosts to introduce you.

Do you have private rooms for couples to play in - No, all activities are right out in the open, for all to see, and enjoy. This makes for a party atmosphere, and is a preference among the majority of those attending. If your a same room swap only couple, this is a perfect setting for you both.

Are condoms required to play -Although not required, it is a good idea, to prevent any chance of infections and disease. We will always have condoms available at no charge, just ask your host.

What are your parties like - Our parties are very sexy. We REALLY go out of our way to make our parties an experience you won't soon forget

Index of USA Swingers Clubs