4-SPC
4-SPC is an off premise club, for couples only. We are
located in the corner of all
4 States Missouri, Oklahoma, Kansas & Arkansas. It is
BYOB, we provide the snacks & soft drinks. It is a very
relaxed atmosphere, and the couples are great!
Our party's are on the 4th Sat of each month unless we
have to work around a Holiday like Thanksgiving, our
December party is always on the 31st (NYE) We never give
out the exact location over the net to insure the
privacy of our members. We always speak with each couple
over the phone to make sure they are a real couple, I'm
sure you understand that, you just never know on the
internet. This protects both you and our club members.
So if you are still interested email us and give us a #
where we can speak with both of you and we will be glad
to give you a call, without a phone call we can not
approve your membership to our club site or give you any
club info. We will always be very discrete.
4-SPC is a Member of NASCA
Brick House
5000 SQ FT - Large Dance Floor - Full Service Bar - 225
Seats w/ Occ. Load of 320 - Pool Tables - Jute Box -
Live DJ &or Bands - Video Game - And Much More to Come.
What is the Alternative Lifestyle?
The Alternative Lifestyle is social and sexual
intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend
or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one
dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex.
The activity may occur at a Lifestyle club, a
couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third
person in a threesome. Though single men and women are
involved, it is primarily an activity of couples.
How do I get into the Alternative Lifestyle community?
Some clubs have no requirements to join. Others are
couples only clubs. The Main Bar of Brick House is an
'open door' lounge, and, with the exception of special
events such as couples only nights, everyone's welcome
to just stop in.
The clubs that allow single men in are usually
unbalanced in the ratio of women to men. It is for this
reason that our Couples Night event restricts access to
uninvited single males. Invited single males are those
who have been invited by a couple to join them.
The clubs that only allow couples also allow single
women in, as is the case with Brick House, where single
women are always welcome.
What is a Alternative Lifestyle club?
An Alternative Lifestyle club is just like any other
socials club with one exception, sex. In the case of
Brick House, our CLUB consists of a fully stocked open
bar which caters to people in the Alternative Lifestyle.
The whole point is to have a place to meet, socialize,
dance and have a good time. You should never feel
obligated to participate at any time. If you feel
pressured, you should notify one of the owners,
security, or the host and the problem will be rectified.
Unless you are very outgoing, take it slow. Don't be
rushed. Talk to the people you meet and get comfortable.
There is nothing worse than getting into a situation
that you are not happy with. Understand and respect the
word NO .Generally, this is the golden rule that's
common from club to club. If you are approached by
someone that you are not interested in, all you have to
do is say no thank you. Most people will respect that
and move on. If someone turns you down, don't take it
personally. Just understand that they are not
interested. It's rare that it ever happens at Brick
House, but if this was the case, the offending party,
who wouldn't take "NO" for an answer will find
themselves quickly removed from the premises.
What do Alternative Lifestyle people look like?
Walk down any street and you will get an idea of what
the people at the swingers clubs look like. They look
like you and I, the average age is in the 30s to 40s
range.
What would I be expected to do at a Alternative
Lifestyle party?
You are not expected to participate in any function.
Like we said earlier, go slow and get a feel for the
people before you jump in. And remember that the golden
rule in virtually every swing club is that the word "NO"
means exactly that "NO .You should never feel that you
are under any type pressure or obligation to do anything
you do not want to do!
What happens at an Alternative Lifestyle party?
The parties usually start with dancing and drinks. This
gives the people an opportunity to meet and mingle. This
is the perfect time to find someone that you enjoy. Dont
be a wall flower, get up and mingle. You will only get
out of it what you put into it.
What about Sexually Transmitted Diseases?
STDs have always been a concern amongst the Alternative
Lifestyle community. If it is a concern to you, use a
condom. Most people are very careful.
What if I'm gay, lesbian, or bi-sexual?
The Alternative Lifestyle community accepts all people
and does not look down upon any sexual preferences or
proclivities. A large number of the women that attend
the club functions are bi-sexual. A small number of the
men in some clubs are bi-sexual. There are also a small
number of gays and lesbians that attend. Again, all are
welcome.
What if I think I'm kinky?
You may think that you are the only one that has that
special little fantasy but you aren't. If you look hard
enough, you will find out that you are not alone. Who
knows? Chances are we'll touch on your personal fantasy,
and if we don't, you're ALWAYS welcome to suggest a
theme for an upcoming party.
I'm interested, but how do I get my partner interested
in the Alternative Lifestyle?
First you must determine whether your partner could
handle the Alternative Lifestyle even if he or she
became interested. The next step is to get them
interested. This can be easy, because most people think
that their fantasies can never become a reality. The
fact is - they can! But, you have to be prepared. Start
by getting your partner to talk openly about sex. The
more open minded people are - the more likely they are
to try new things. Ask them about their fantasies.
Everyone has them, but many people are afraid to talk
about them. To help things along, you might try
discussing your thoughts and fantasies with your
partner. Next, move on to imagination, story telling, or
role playing. Grab a copy of Penthouse Forum or a
similar story magazine. Read out loud to each other.
Then discuss the stories... What turns you on? What
about your partner? You might try watching some X-Rated
movies together. The key here is to take your time.
Rushing someone is "pressure", and no one likes to be
pressured into doing anything. It takes time to become
comfortable with the whole idea of the Alternative
Lifestyle. For some, moral issues have to be dealt with.
Remember: Don't ever pressure your partner or make him
or her feel guilty for not being interested in the
Alternative Lifestyle.
How do I talk to couples who in the Alternative
Lifestyle or are curious about the Alternative
Lifestyle?
The easiest way is to "chat" with them using an online
chat forum. Some couples would rather look through some
Alternative Lifestyle ads and talk with someone that
they have an interest in. You can make arrangements to
e-mail them, chat with them, or maybe even talk on the
phone. Remember, though, we recommend that you meet in a
public place before ever divulging residence or
telephone information.
How do I bring up the subject of the Alternative
Lifestyle with my partner?
Communication! This is biggest cause of couples
problems. You should have good communications, or
develop it, if you are going to swing. Talk about your
fantasies. Communications is an essential element in a
successful Alternative Lifestyle relationship!
Where do I begin?
As we've indicated, Brick House is an 'open bar' club,
which means we don't have a membership requirement for
you to attend and meet in the club. The best place to
start is to drop in and visit Brick House, or your
favorite local club, meet and mingle. In our case, as is
the case with most clubs, there's no pressure to
perform. In fact, we recommend that you take it slow in
the beginning, and explore your surroundings. We know
that you'll meet a lot of really nice people, and it
won't be long before you're comfortable!
What about Personal Ads?
Personal Ads are a good way to look for the kind of
person or people you're interested in.
This website offers links to websites that offer
interactive personal ads area, which allows you to place
a personal ad. AND, one of the most important parts of
our ads system is that it allows you to place an ad in
total anonymity. Persons responding to your ad DO NOT
have access to personal information, such as your email
address or any other data that you don't specifically
include in your ad. All responses to your ad go through
the Ad Systems mail system, and are sent to you
anonymously, giving YOU the choice of whether or not to
respond to the persons answering your ad, and giving YOU
the option of giving them your address.
If we place an ad, what should we say?
Say the truth. Honestly describe yourselves and what you
are looking for. Be specific. If you are placing an ad,
photos will increase your response. Remember, sexy is
better than slutty. When answering ads it is recommended
that you don't send nude photos until you know the
person on the other end is for real. There are many
"photo collectors" posing as couples. Photocopies or
g-rated GIF's or JPG's are fine for first letters.
What do we do when meeting people in response to an Ad?
When it comes to meeting someone for the first time in
response to an ad, there are a few important rules you
should keep in mind First, always make first meetings in
a public place. While they are, in almost every case, a
decent person and someone who is sincere in their
response and simply wants to meet you, it's only
reasonable to take precautions, and making that first
meeting in a public place, such as Brick House, or your
favorite local club, is a good way to protect your
privacy, and insure your safety.
Second, never give out your home address or your
telephone number by email. You should ALWAYS meet the
person(s) in a public place first, on one or more
occasions, to satisfy yourself of their sincerity before
divulging any information such as addresses or phone
numbers. Third and lastly, sort of as an extension of
both of the above, if you're using a personal ad in a
print publication or anyplace that requires that people
respond by mail, it's a really good idea to have them
reach you through a post office box or mail drop
address. The idea here is not to scare you, or put you
off from placing a personal ad, since, as we've said
before, in most cases, the people responding are decent
people who just want to meet you. We just believe in
advocating being cautious, as a safety measure.
I'm a single guy. How come so many ads say "No single
males"?
This is quite simple and often misunderstood. The
majority of people in the Alternative Lifestyle are
couples. The majority of the women in these
relationships are bisexual. Very few of the men are
bisexual. Most often when a couple is looking for a
"threesome", it is because the guy AND the woman want to
be with another woman. It benefits both of them. Only in
situations where the woman would like two men at once,
are single males sought. And single men outnumber single
women looking to swing by about 10 to 1.
What about diseases (STDs)?
Many couples insist on condoms, some don't. It is a
personal decision for you. Don't ever trust tests
though. There is no such thing as "PROOF" of being
"disease free". There are diseases out there so, do what
you feel comfortable with. We recommend condoms for
EVERY sexual encounter. Remember that diseases can be
transmitted by sexual contact. Never let anyone tell you
not to use protection, if that is your choice.
On a final note.
Brick Houses philosophy is that the Alternative
Lifestyle is an expression of our individual sexuality,
and an enhancement to our individual relationships. As a
result, our goal is not just to share our lifestyle, but
to do so in a responsible manner. That means that it's
important to point out that the Alternative Lifestyle is
not for everyone, and can in fact do great harm to your
life long relationship, if you haven't properly prepared
yourself before getting involved in the lifestyle. It's
important to note, if you should choose to explore the
Alternative Lifestyle that you do so responsibly as
well.
One of the most important things to remember is that the
Alternative Lifestyle should be an enhancement to your
own relationship, and not an end in itself. This means
that it's important that you leave your insecurities and
jealousies at the door.
If you're seriously considering joining us in what is,
admittedly, a highly sexual lifestyle, make sure that
you are first and foremost secure in your own personal
relationship. Communication is a key element here. Set
your ground rules and dont break them at any cost. This
key will keep your personal relationship strong. You
need to talk about your feelings before getting
involved, and work to communicate and resolve any
lingering issues you might have about getting involved
before you do so, we think that you'll find that your
experiences will not only be better, but will also only
serve to make your own relationship more exciting than
it was before! We hope that we've provided some
information which gives you some insights into the
Alternative Lifestyle, and hope that your experiences
are an enhancement of a lifetime!
Club Dreamers
Club Dreamers is an off premise lifestyle club in
Oklahoma City providing a comfortable, no pressure
atmosphere for your enjoyment. The club is open to
couples and single females. The regular parties are held
on the third Saturday of each month. RSVP to receive
details. Club Dreamers is a BYOL club. Setups, ice and
snacks are furnished. We have an 11,000 watt sound
system and a variety of lighting effects for the large
dance floor. A pool table and electronic darts are also
available. Smoking is allowed in the club
Club Okc Obsessions
We are the newest Swingers Club in Oklahoma City. We
cater to the next generation of swingers. So if you are
young or young at heart and prefer a club with high
energy music and a very sexy atmosphere then Check us
out at Club Okc Obsessions. We are an off premise club
so you can feel comfortable that this will be a no
pressure place for you to hook up with local couples
that share your same open minded views on marrage and
sexual fantasy
Eden in Oklahoma City
Eden is a private off premise club for committed, secure
COUPLES into alternative / open lifestyles. Our club
meets on Saturdays. Check our Upcomming Parties Link for
the Days We ask for a $35.00 donation to help pay for
the party cost and building. Parties start at 9:00 pm
unless posted different. We have our own private
building and are in a very private location within the
city limits. We are close to hotels and have a group
rate at one of the cities finest hotels. Any couples
interested in becoming members must set up a time for an
meeting or fill out an application from our application
Link above, and we will contact you with an meeting
time, so you can be filled in on what goes on at the
parties. For all those interested please E-Mail us for
general questions or click on the above links to find
out more! Please note that Eden is for committed couples
and single women only, no single men will be considered
for membership. Now, enjoy your visit to The Eden
Website. We look forward to seeing you at an upcoming
party!
Philosophy
Eden's philosophy is to provide a friendly atmosphere
where couples can socialize with others of similar
interests. It is an ideal environment that allows you to
move at your own pace with everyone on common ground.
Relax in the social area of our club where you can
discuss your wildest fantasies with other members with
similar interests.
New to the lifestyle? Go HERE for Tips
We were all new at one time and we can understand your
feelings. You will find that those who are experienced
in this lifestyle are very understanding and caring
people who are extremely sensitive to your feelings.
Your presence at our social does not obligate you into
the lifestyle. There are no aggressive or pushy people
allowed, only friendly open minded people who enjoy
meeting others. There will be pleasant conversations
while they help you begin your journey into this most
enjoyable alternative lifestyle . We can almost assure,
you will find lasting friendships with our club members.
That is why Eden's motto is: Friends first.
Theme Nights
Eden tries to keep the club exciting with theme nights
throughout the year. Some examples are
Roman Night, Toga Night, Beach Night, Costume Parties,
etc.
Eden is an off premise altenative lifestyles club
for couples and single women only!
Their are a few steps to attend a Eden party.
1. Must be at least 21 years old.
2. Fill out our membership application. (Click here to
go to App. Page)
3. Must attend a scheduled meeting
so you can be filled in on what goes on at the parties.
Each party requires a $35.00 donation
FAQs
What is Swinging?
Swinging is social and sexual intercourse with someone
other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting
the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as
recreational social sex. The activity may occur at a
swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liason, or
with a third person in a threesome. Though single men
and women are involved, it is primarily an activity of
couples.
Who the Swingers Are
People who swing come from all economic levels. Every
job classification, all races and nationalities are
represented, though the majority are Caucasian, middle
to upper middle socio-economic class, and married.
Swingers, married and single, tend to be adventuresome,
emotionally mature, and have excellent relationships
with their mates and friends. Single people are involved
in swinging but not to the extent of couples. Many
single women have joined swing clubs, finding them a
refreshing alternative to the traditional bar scene.
Couples in Swinging
Swinging is "the recreation" for couples whether they
are married, committed (having an ongoing emotional
commitment), living together (co-habitating, with or
without an on-going intimate relationship) or single
couples who date. A study of swinging couples (McGinley,
1979) reported increased enjoyment and satisfaction in
the relationships accompanied by a better understanding
of self and mate, greater intimacy between the partners
and a decrease in sex role playing and sexist
expectations.
Swinging enables a couple to explore sexual and social
feelings and needs together, permitting a
demystification of sex which allows sex to assume a
place in the relationship unhindered by the standard
ties to love, duty, sex roles and morals of others.
Women in Swinging
It is certainly an understatement to say that the role
of women in our society has greatly changed over the
past several decades. The humanistic and womans
movements have had an impact on sexuality also. The
number of women choosing involvement in swinging during
the past few years is remarkable. Sexual and social
assertiveness on the part of women at swing parties and
other swing activities is not only acceptable, it has
come to be expected.
To openly be oneself without fear of seeming unfeminine
is a delightful experience for a woman and a welcome
experience for the man. Swinging provides the
environment to alter sex-role playing for both sexes,
allowing men and women to participate with each other in
a uniquely human experience.
Men in Swinging
Whether married, in a relationship or single, swinging
can be a wonderful experience for a man. Not
surprisingly, most women who are into swinging were
introduced to the lifestyle by a man in their life. Also
not surprising, many men would swing if only they could.
They are hindered from the experience by their marriage,
or if single, their inability to find a woman for a
swinging partner. Of course, guilt feelings about sex
and pleasure, and sex roles, also hinder men from
swinging.
Men are not the macho, always ready, self-reliant
persons of fiction. They are as human as their female
counterparts. They experience loneliness and fear
rejection. A man, on convincing his wife to try
swinging, may experience unexpected jealousy and a
feeling of loss when she walks hand in hand, partially
nude and obviously excited, toward a bedroom with
another towel-clad man. He had fantasized himself in
swinging but had not comprehended the reality of his
wife or mate swinging.
As with women, the experience of swinging can be growth
producing for a man. It alters forever traditional
concepts of man-woman relationships with sexist
overtones. Through swinging, a man can experience a
great deal of pleasure.
What is a Swing Club?
NASCA defines swing clubs as any organization, formal or
informal, which exists to provide swinging activities.
Swing clubs exist in a variety of forms. These include
Swing Clubs, Party Houses, Circles and Socials, Bars and
Cocktail Lounges and Contact Services. All but the
contact services may be on-premises or off-premises.
Contact services work through the mail or telephone and
rarely provide swing parties although they may promote
group travel. Parties given by on-premises swing clubs
may have from ten to sixty or more couples, though
twenty to forty couples is the common average.
On-premises means that sexual activity occurs at the
party. Off premises swing clubs, cocktail lounges and
bars help you to meet other swingers. Swinging will be
elsewhere with the interested couples and singles
responsible for the arrangements. The arrangements
include who is to be invited, the location, date and
time.
The on premises party offers a wide possibility of
social interaction, selection, potential of swinging
with others in a foursome, threesome, one-on-one, or in
a group scene. Bisexual as well as heterosexual swinging
is possible, principally among women. And the club
on-premises party offers this without pressure in a
structured environment. Private, semi-private and group
rooms are generally provided to meet the desires of
virtually everyone. Heated pools, Jacuzzis and hot tubs
may be available to accent the social environment.
What is a Swing Publication?
Swing publications serve the swing community by
publishing personal ads.
Many also publish photos of the advertisers. A few carry
ads only. Most offer articles about swinging and sexual
behavior. Personal ads offer a form of swinging that
many find exciting. The placing and answering of ads is
a swing activity in itself. It is exciting to open a
letter describing a new couple, perhaps with photos.
Socially meeting someone following an exchange of
letters, photos and phone calls, with the possibility of
swinging, is considered the height of swinging pleasure
by many.
What is Sex in Swinging Like?
The actual sexual activity of swinging is varied. Though
important, swinging is rarely centered around the orgasm
but on the various pleasurable acts that lead to orgasm.
Once on a bed, the participants will generally begin
with kissing and caressing each others body. Both the
womans and mans nipples are favorite places of fondling,
sucking and gentle nibbling, followed by licking and
kissing around the genital area, then the genitals
directly. Most develop techniques they feel pleasure
their various partners.
Sixty-nine or mutual oral-genital pleasuring is popular.
Either partner may masturbate the other, and vibrators
may be employed, especially in group swing scenes such
as in the swing clubs group room. These activities may
be intermixed with intercourse done in a variety of
ways. Anal sex is popular with some swingers. Bisexual
swinging is more common among women than among men.
What is "Soft" SWING?
Soft swinging is basically anything, except intercourse
with the other couple. Many people assume that
"swinging" means "swapping", but there are other types.
What is a "Hardcore" swinger?
A person or couple who's only interest is sex, and lot's
of it. Their life tends to revolve around swinging. Most
swinger's prefer to be "friends first" and are not
hardcore swingers.
What is a "Wannabe"?
Usually a single or married male that is trying to get
involved but doesn't have a partner. So they will lie
about a partner to meet you. The partner then
"conveniently" can't make it. Even worse is the
"wannabe" that will bring an unsuspecting person as
their "ticket" into a couples party.
I'm interested, but how do I get my partner interested
in swinging?
Swinging is not for everyone, so first you must
determine whether your partner could handle swinging
even if he or she became interested. The next step is to
get them interested. This can be easy, because most
people think that their fantasies can never become a
reality. The fact is - they can! But you have to be
prepared. Start by discussing your thoughts and
fantasies with your partner. Then move on to
imagination, story telling, or role playing. You may
want to sit down together and talk to other curious
couples or couples who already are swingers. Take your
time. It takes time to become comfortable with the whole
idea. Don't ever pressure your partner or make him or
her feel guilty for not swinging.
How do I talk to couples who swing or are curious about
swinging?
The easiest way is to "chat" with them in SoftSWING LIVE
CHAT. Some couples would rather look through the
directory and talk with someone that they have an
interest in. You can make arrangements to e-mail them,
chat with them on SoftSWING, or maybe even talk on the
phone.
How do I bring up the subject of swinging with my
partner?
Communication! This is biggest cause of couples
problems. You should have good communications, or
develop it, if you are going to swing. Talk about your
fantasies. Show your partner web pages like SoftSWING
(be sure the page has something that will interest him
or her). Some sites are not tasteful and may not be the
right thing to show.
How do we start?
Depends on your situation. If you have a club near you,
you can visit it. Most of them have an orientation for
new members. You can look through a swinger magazine or
look right here on SoftSWING. You can even place ads if
you would like others to contact you. The benefit of
meeting a couple through an ad is you know up front,
that you both share a common interest, or curiosity, in
swinging. Then you can build a friendship, or get to
know each other, before you make any decisions.
We are going to a party. What do we wear and what do we
expect?
Dress depends on the dance or party. Ask your host or
other club members. Usual dress will be casual, but
neat. Remember, you are trying to make a good
impression. What to expect depends on the event. But
whatever it is, be relaxed. No one will make you do
anything against your will.
What kind of people are swingers?
Very normal people, just like you! Swingers tend to be
married, friendly, outgoing people. They tend not to be
religious. Physically you will see all types; tall or
short, skinny or fat, young or old, and all mixes in
between.
Swingers are just about everywhere. Finding them may be
difficult. Check your local adult book or video store
for any local swing publications. If that still doesn't
help, advertise on SoftSWING or in print. Many couples
answer ads, but never place them.
If we place an ad, what should we say?
Say the truth. Honestly describe yourselves and what you
are looking for. Be specific. If you are placing an ad,
photos will increase your response. Remember, sexy is
better than slutty. When answering ads it is recommended
that you don't send nude photos until you know the
person on the other end is for real. There are many
"photo collectors" posing as couples. Photocopies or
g-rated GIF's or JPG's are fine for first letters.
We answered an ad! How should we meet?
Meet at a neutral setting (i.e. restaurant or lounge).
This makes it much easier to leave if things don't go
well. Be on time and make sure that you have given each
other specific contact information (i.e. What kind of
car, dress, etc). Prepare preset signals to communicate
between the two of you, such as "Yes", "No", "Maybe",
and "Let's get the hell out of here!"
Now we've met and want to get down to business. Where do
we go from here?
Don't be shy, ask! Make arrangements. Talk between the
couples. What are the rules? Same room, different rooms,
swap, or just soft-swing, etc. Once the ground rules are
set, go for it. Just remember, "NO" means NO, at any
time.
I'm a single guy. How come so many ads say "No single
males"?
Swinging is not only physical, but philosophical.
Swinging is sharing. Sharing is two-sided and single
guys tend to be takers and not givers. Single guys seem
to be self-centered (i.e. "What's in it for me?"). They
tend to be rushed (i.e. "Hi. Let's fuck.") They become
too attached and clingy (i.e. falling in love with the
woman). Single guys are viewed as being a greater health
risk. This is not to say that a single can't be
successful finding couples. It happens all the time, but
you must realize that swinging is still a couples game.
What about safe sex?
Many couples insist on it, some don't. It is a personal
decision for you. There are many scary diseases out
there so, do what you feel comfortable with. AIDS
shouldn't be the reason for not swinging, because it is
easily prevented. Never let anyone tell you not to use
protection, if that is your choice.
My wife and I are a little overweight. Should we wait
until we lose weight to swing?
It's always nice to lose a little weight if you need to.
But don't let that stop you. You will find all types
(and shapes) of couples at events. Don't worry, but
being HWP (height and weight proportional) does give you
more options.
What's the most important thing to know about swinging?
Communication! Be as attentive and courteous to your
partner as you are to the other couple. Set rules and
limits, and stick to them. Finally, just relax and have
fun!
Friendship Plus
Friendships Plus provides an off premise, upscale,
exciting and secure atmosphere for committed couples to
experience the swinging lifestyle, explore sexual
fantasies, develop lasting friendships and be confident
that discretion is of utmost importance
Oklahoma G Spot
We are an upscale members only club. We are a lifestyle
BYOB club. Our parties are by invite only. Please
include a current pic of you and your spouse when you
email for an invitation.
We provide complimentary drink sodas and light snacks.
We have a spacious dance floor with a variety of music.
We are a "No Pressure" environment but allow enough room
for Play. Smoking and Non-smoking sections are
available.
Oklahoma G Spot is a Members-Only BYOB club located in
Tulsa, Oklahoma. Everyone must become a Member to enter.
Until we move to a permanent location we are waving the
usual Membership fee. We do ask for a $20 donation per
couple to help cover cost. We reserve the right to
refuse admittance to anyone.
Single Men are NOT ALLOWED and membership is not
available. A couple constitutes a male and a female.
We feel this is important to keep a couples oriented, no
hassle atmosphere. Men are not allowed to give unwanted
attention to women in any way.
Oklahoma G Spot Club Rules
Proper Attire Is Required
Management reserves the right to refuse entry to anyone
based on overall appearance.
Common Sense Rules:
Your membership ID card must be presented to gain entry
to any event or function.
No one must ever give unwanted attention to another
member. Men must treat women with the highest respect
and courtesy, and must defer politely to their wishes.
Even the most subtle "no" means NO!
Be discreet and respect the privacy of others: No
cameras or recording devices.
No illegal drugs or illegal activity will be tolerated.
Anyone behaving inappropriately will be asked to leave.
You are welcome to bring any alcoholic beverages. We do
supply some mixes (Coke, Pepsi, 7-Up, Diet Soda, Water &
Coffee). We do not provide Juices or other special
mixes.
Playful behavior is welcome, but not actual sexual
activities while at the club.
For your protection, Never give out the location of the
club or discuss what is seen or heard. Discretion is a
must!
Oklahoma Players Club
Located in Tulsa, OK with easy access from Oklahoma
City, Wichita, Joplin and Fort Smith metropolitan areas
~ Oklahoma Players Club is Oklahoma's newest swingers
club for couples and single females. Inspired and
managed with input from couples experienced in the
swinging lifestyle to create a positive experience for
all who attend.
The focus at Oklahoma Players Club is to be "couple
friendly" with a relaxed atmosphere, great music, and
complimentary snacks and set-ups all provided by a
knowledgeable and helpful staff of club directors and
host couples.
At Oklahoma Players Club, your privacy will be strictly
protected. You will NEVER have to worry about your
information being shared with other couples or clubs.
It is the desire of Oklahoma Players Club that the
Lifestyle continue to grow and flourish! We promise to
be available to address your questions and concerns
Scandals
We have a special every nite of the week! Fridays are no
cover and is considered meet and greet and open D.J. We
have a full time request list available to all customers
for FRIDAY AND SATURDAY. We are independetly owned and
cater to ALL couples in and out of the lifestyle.
Sunday
Guys Night Out
& Bikini Contest
Cash Prize
$1.50 Domestic
Longnecks
All Night
Monday - Sunday Happy Hour 12-7
$1.50 Domestic
Longnecks
Tuesday
Pool League 7pm
Wednesday
Karaoke 8pm
DJ DWayne
Thursday
Ladies Night
Free Beer
Domestic Longnecks
8pm to Close
Live DJ
Friday
Meet & Greet
Couples & Singles
No Cover
Live DJ
Saturday
Couples Night
$10 per Couple
Single Ladies Free
Oklahoma City's Adult Party
Headquarters - Twisted Events
Twisted Events (TE) is a social group for adults. TE is
for couples, singles, Trios, swingers, BDSM enthusiasts,
kink, fetish, all trans-gendered communities,
cross-dressers, and any adult who is looking to explore
an alternative lifestyle. TE supports all adults looking
to discover a more intimate side of themselves. Enjoy
our web page, and always remember to act responsibly.
We welcome your comments & suggestions.
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